Comments on: Why Should I Join Your Group Anyway? Part #1

By: Kaaren Douglas

Kaaren Douglas — Wed, 27 May 2009 21:04:02 +0000

Really appreciate your comments. It’s like everyone is selling, and even worse, no one is “listening.” I try to help others in my network achieve their goals, whether they are part of my organization or not. I appreciate using all the social media as a possible business platform, and yes, I do also connect with friends and family here as well.

By: evidencesx

evidencesx — Thu, 22 May 2008 07:08:45 +0000

Hi Jim, you’re right, and because of profusion of social networks, we try to cope with that hard reality. And make difference between, professionals and funny networks so long, which is the best way to stay for a long time in interesting topics. I must admit that lots of folks are only there for…fun, make a try, moaning around…that’s all. But we know all, social media is a serious piece of world ; and we always have to keep the things right, when we see people crossing the yellow line.
Thx for your work, have a nice day.
L.

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Mon, 19 May 2008 02:02:21 +0000

[...] Should I Join Your Group Anyway? Part #2 In my last post I was somewhat critical of well-meaning folks loading up my inbox with numerous group requests [...]

By: Spencer Parikh

Spencer Parikh — Mon, 19 May 2008 00:46:36 +0000

Hi Jim…I am in the same boat and share in your rant. I think many of us who are active and higher profile on the networks do. We’re easier targets and so we see a higher frequency of these kinds of messages. It’s very easy to spot what’s an invitation to join a quality group versus an invitation to occupy a seat in front of a virtual “billboard” (of varying quality). The grass roots networks (not supported by a major brand) that I am more attracted to are ones with strong leadership and moderation. The leader is actively engaged in the quality of the members and the content being brought forth. This can primarily happen if the leader is making a diligent effort to get to know his/her members directly – at least in the beginning until some critical mass is reached. That said, it’s all easier said than done as I am finding while building a network sponsored by/for my company. If we stray, rant away…I’ll be all ears! Great post Jim, thanks.

By: Jim Turner

Jim Turner — Mon, 19 May 2008 00:33:09 +0000

Zoey, Charlie and David –

thanks for your comments. I didn’t think I was in the boat alone. I hope yo come back for Pt 2.

Cheers!
~Jim Turner

By: David Burns

David Burns — Sun, 18 May 2008 18:43:20 +0000

Thanks Jim for your rant. I liked, and agreed with everything you said. I am new to Facebook and I have resisted joining the network for at least a year because of the very things you outlined in your blog. It seems nowadays, everyone is bent on selling themselves as a product (maybe too many self-help books out there?). Empowerment is a popular topic these days. Getting rich is another popular venture. I am seeking self-empowerment and enrichment as an individual, and your writing is on the right track.

Your message answered the question (topic).

Be well,

David Burns

By: charlie robinson

charlie robinson — Sun, 18 May 2008 11:52:37 +0000

making, creating and maintaining a group is an ongoing job. and it’s not always easy… i know this because of the few that i personally run.

a few people i have spoken to this week have all said they have “done the housework” on their group selections and deleted a number. it’s no wonder when some (group managers) spam, some say nothing and some are just plain weird at the end of the day!! it’s a fine line getting it right, but exceptionally rewarding when the group GROWs and we develop friendships along the way.

keep up the good work Jim… am loving your thoughts. spot on!! xc

By: Zoey Jordan

Zoey Jordan — Sat, 17 May 2008 19:47:42 +0000

Hi Jim,
Thanks for touching on this topic! I too have become overwhelmed with the number of invites to join this group, that group…all promising I can get RICH! Wow, if I were born yesterday, or even last week, maybe I’d fall for it. I find it annoying! And like you, I have no interest in joining a group b/c when the group leader reaches a certain friend level, they’ll be rich, tell their spouse “see, I told you so” or anything along those lines. I want to network and make authentic connections to learn from others, share my services, and expand my online portfolio. I don’t want to be on another spam email list, and when people us FB in an abusive way, which I think this stuff is…all they are doing is harvesting their own email list without having me opt-in. Okay, off my soap box. Thanks again Jim!
Cheers,
Zoey